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My infertility creed, part 5: Mary, Mother of us all
I must admit that at times, I have had a challenging relationship with our Blessed Mother. It is something that I am working through. In my weakest moments, I envy Mary. Here I am, with a barren womb, empty and broken. Yet Mary immaculately conceived Jesus at a young age. She simply said “yes” to God’s will and suddenly she was pregnant. That is the impression we get sometimes, isn’t it? What could the Mother of God know of infertility or the long wait toward adoptive parenth

Kristin D.
Oct 155 min read


Nurturing your marriage
At the foundation of every couple’s union is the art of communication. Through the spoken word, physical cues, and rituals of affection...

Kristin D.
Feb 124 min read


My infertility creed, part 4: Light from light
Every human life is sacred. (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 2258) That includes yours and mine. All life comes to fruition through...

Kristin D.
May 28, 20246 min read


My infertility creed, part 3: Before all ages
Before I ever knew that we were infertile, God knew. Yet my husband and I never had any doubt that we were meant for each other. I truly...

Kristin D.
May 28, 20245 min read


My infertility creed, part 2: Maker of heaven and earth
The God of creation made everything that is, and there are still so many things He has not yet made. I don’t know how, I don’t know why...

Kristin D.
May 28, 20245 min read


My infertility creed, part 1: I believe in one God
(This is an excerpt from “The Spiritual Advent of Infertility” manuscript. This is the first in a 4-part series. You can find the links to parts 2, 3, and 4 at the end of this blog.) Infertility can be a very raw experience of loss and grief. A very basic part of the human experience is missing. How are we to make sense out of it all? The Nicene Creed shares with us the very basic tenets of our faith. It sheds light on our understanding of who God is and who we are in relatio

Kristin D.
May 28, 20245 min read


Lectio Divina: "Do not be afraid"
Lectio Divina (aka “divine reading”) is a traditional Church approach to praying with scripture in a personal way. There are a number of different methods of praying Lectio Divina, and we encourage you to try different ones and find out what works best for you. This week, we invite you to reflect on Scripture and welcome the Holy Spirit to be your guide as the Word of God speaks to your heart. We have provided a guided reflection for two different Gospel readings below - you

Kristin D.
Sep 13, 20233 min read


Ask the team: how do you deal with pregnancy announcements?
If receiving the news that a friend or family member is pregnant has been a particularly difficult part of your infertility journey, then...

thefruitfulhollow
Sep 20, 20227 min read


Overcoming infertility trauma
The devil is so cunning, isn’t he? Satan takes elements of truth and twists them in such a way that we suspend our free will because we...

Kristin D.
Mar 15, 20225 min read


Hope alive! (1st week of Advent)
“Rejoice in hope, endure in affliction, persevere in prayer.” (Romans 12:12)

Kristin D.
Nov 29, 20213 min read


St. Pope John Paul II: Create The Day
At his core, St. JPII was an exemplary poet, playwright, dreamer, and a visionary. He understood the depths of the human longing to create..

Kristin D.
Oct 19, 20215 min read


Infertility on the Road to Emmaus
Grief has a way of masking the world around us; it can confuse and blur the truth. I’m sure the disciples felt that way as they grappled...

Kristin D.
Aug 4, 20216 min read


Through the Eyes of Infertility: A collection of insights
Some days are harder than others – the days when the hope in your heart sinks to a whisper in quiet hushed tones.

thefruitfulhollow
Apr 21, 20214 min read


A Holy Thursday tradition: church visitation
If you were the only person on this earth, he would still have chosen to endure the Passion for you.

Kristin D.
Mar 30, 20214 min read
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